Finding the “perfect man” has become the focal point
of interest for most women who desire to date. A lot of books and materials
have been published to help women in finding this rare species but still less
has been achieved in finding him. In the search for the right man, in most
cases women are forced to always be on a watch out for greener pastures but
only to be disappointed when they find out that; what they thought to be
greener pastures is just cactus. In
order to build what will always give you joy, dating has to always to be seen
as a life changing process than a game of trying lack and quitting if no
fortune is forthcoming. In this work, we are going to find out what women who
are interested in dating ought to understand about men and how to live with
men.
Every woman desires a loving man who will respect
her, treat her right, listen to her, make her his queen and make her feel
important in her life. Men are not void of giving these desires and they can
provide them to total satisfaction. The only problem is; how do you expect a
man to respect you if you do not respect yourself? A man will learn to respect you
and your body if you respect yourself.
Men have eyes that are gifted in seeing more than the obvious in a
woman. Through lust a man can go for the woman he never wanted just to quench
his sexual desires and satisfy his fantasy. In order to be on the safe side, a
woman is obligated to carry herself with a lot of care and dignity not to
attract every chuff to herself. Putting on suggestively attracts most men sexually
as their desires are aroused without any affection. Because they see what ought
not to see, like hungry hyenas, they follow blindly and do everything within
their powers to attain their desire. With a lot of sweet words, they lure a
woman into believing their consistent lies which become true to women leading
them to loose their firmness giving in to men’s demands making themselves preys.
This never ties a man but builds his ego and he despises women even the more
because he can always have whatever he likes from them without any commitment.
Leading on a man to sex can never make him to love
you or be there for you when you need him. One should ensure that before a man
gets to lay her, he has affirmed his claims of loving her through his actions
more than words. Sweet words may whither but kind action of affirming his care
and giving preference to you in most of his action should be a clear indication
of his sincere interest in you. You should purpose to learn whether his
affections are pure and genuine from the heart or he is just disguising his
interests in the name of loving you to acquire sex. You may be surprised to
realize when it is too late that; all along he just wanted sex and blinded you
with faked affections luring you to give out what you cherish most in the name
of love making him a winner as he leaves you nursing wounds from desperation,
betrayal and misuse. How wise will it be if one stops attracting a crowd of men
who are only after sex but instead learn to find love in a man? This can be
achieved through seeking one who will genuinely grow in love with you to be
there to elevate you into being a complete person by complementing your
weaknesses through appreciating and accepting whom you are. Do not ever think
that sex will work magic in a man to start loving you if he never did. It will
only satisfy his sex needs and nothing more will forth come.
Like women, men have feelings and emotions that they
wish satisfied. Men love as ladies do. Men are much worried when things are not
working fine in their relationships as do women. Men are hurt when disappointed
as do women. A man loves easily one who listens to his heart and feelings. As
any other social beings, men equally need a woman who will share with them the
most heartfelt concerns about life, providing alternatives and solutions to
problems where possible. A woman becomes the major contributor to a man’s
success or failure. Men desire women who will think straight and stand tall in
difficult situations to help them pull together their muscles to remain
objective and purpose driven in life. Despite men being the providers, they
equally appreciate to be bought presents, taken out for a treat and many more
others as they do you because these makes them feel important. This is crucial
since it helps both of you to grow together in love as you blend your weakness
with your mutual strengths and differences in life.
A woman is
the best company a man can ever have in his entire life. Allow yourself to be
loved first as you love yourself and learn to grow together in love with a man
before letting him posses the privacy of your body. Men can be perfect if only
women stop stripping anywhere and allowing them to have vain imaginations in
their minds leading them to use them as sex objects.
